Struggle of The Youth

In a world full of judgments and criticism, the phrase "I'm okay" has become the most convincing lie people tell us. Filipino youth were known and praised for their resilience, the smile they gave, even though they were having a hard time, and how they kept pushing forward despite the obstacles. Yet the praise slowly turns into an excuse, to the point we ignore what they actually feel inside.

According to the Philippine Star News, one in five Filipino youth experienced depressive symptoms, alarming the community that 20.9 percent of youth are already suffering from depression, anxiety, and burnout, which is double the percentage a decade ago. And this shows that the struggles were not rare but actually becoming normal.

Students mostly suffered from this: hours of lectures, the stack of projects, quizzes, deadlines, and the endless expectation of the people around us. Coming home after the long hours of School, facing chores and assignments they need to finish. The exhausting cycle that repeats daily simply makes them forget how to rest and have peace of mind.

But pressure is not only about academics; but they can also experience it at home, with the responsibility of silently carrying their family. They somehow change their standard that education is not just a goal for themselves— it's an investment in their family. They thought that this inspires determination, yet it turns out that dreams can be an obligation, making them think that success isn't optional; it is expected.

Some think that young people who express their feelings are often called "only for drama", dismissing their struggles. Understanding is limited, and mental health conversations are increasing. Lots were left to deal with their problem all by themselves, scared to be criticized and misunderstood.

Survival shouldn't be normal; they are set for the youth, and the fact that we are normalizing the struggles, we should try solving them. They don't need to be motivated; they need support. A safe space where they can lean and speak honestly without getting judged. But in the end, "resilient" to youth is not just about strength— but a story we need to listen.